So today I decided it was time (they are supposed to hatch in 14-16 days) and I put the hat nest and eggs into the garbage can.
But when I did that, I counted 11 eggs and there were only 7 before.
I don't know why I did it after I'd already gotten rid of the eggs, but I looked online just one more time for what happens when the eggs don't hatch and what the mama does. All the other times I googled it I came up with nothing, but today I found a resource that says that birds will sometimes lay a second clutch of eggs later on top of the unhatched ones, since the nest is already made.
That would explain why there were now 5 more eggs.
So after I had a really good cry, my Mom convinced me to go out and try to save it all. I used a paper towel folded over like a pot holder to put the nest back in the sombrero. Then I took a tablespoon and gently lifted all the eggs I could find out of the trash can and into the nest and then I hung the sombrero back in the garage.
Checked a little bit ago and mama is sitting on the eggs again. I just hope there are some viable ones in there – think I got 7 back into the nest – hope some of them are the new ones, but that was all I could find. One broke and I couldn't get the others.
At least I tried and I feel better. And I learned a lesson. Well, maybe two lessons - don't move nests until there is absolutely no adult activity, and ... keep the garage door closed all the time so they won't make nests in my garage.
Or, (more likely) put a birdy – door in our garage!